Last updated on November 26, 2022
To ensure public safety from the coronavirus, we are to stay home as much as possible. But the house may not be a safe place if you come across intimate partner violence (IPV) of any kind. There are so many problems associated with IPV. One nagging issue is the ever-growing occurrence among immigrant healthcare professionals.
In this post, we will delve into the profound dynamics surrounding IPV. We will answer vital questions related to IPV in this population. Also, we will explore strategies that could prevent such events. Only then will we be able to contribute to the fight to stop it.
Intimate Partner Violence Definition
“Intimate partner violence (IPV) is a serious, preventable public health problem that affects millions of Americans. The term “intimate partner violence” describes physical violence, sexual violence, stalking, or psychological harm by a current or former partner or spouse. This type of violence can occur among heterosexual or same-sex couples and does not require sexual intimacy.“
Source: National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, Division of Violence Prevention
The Horrific Trend of Intimate Partner Violence
On Friday, December 18, 2020, an established couple living in Sugarland, Texas, originally from Delta State, Nigeria, was found dead in their family home. A murder-suicide investigation is ongoing.
This horrible trend of IPV is old. Above is only one of many cases of foreign-born registered nurses living in the United States. They are the most affected minority health care practitioners. A hotline in the United States, attempting to tackle the high rate of intimate partner violence against nurses in the Nigerian diaspora reports receiving 10-15 calls a year. These calls detail an intent to harm an intimate partner.
Yes, IPV occurs in all populations. However, people of color are the most likely victims.
Also, women of color are at increased risk of dying at the hands of a perpetrator.
What Increases the Likelihood of IPV Happening?
Below is as simple illustration:
All five risk factors are generally related to one another.
Why does Intimate Partner Violence Happen?
1. It is all about power and control, stemming from the great insecurity that practically all abusers possess.
Personality plays an enormous role in the phenomenon of IPV. And that’s largely shaped through culture.
Gender, Power, and Violence: Responding to Sexual and Intimate Partner Violence in Society Today2. Perhaps it is due to cultural and possibly religious beliefs? Traditionally, males have always played a leading role in the family.
However, with modernization and civilization, educated women earn more and often become more outspoken in family decision-making and processes. Naturally, the male ego gets hurt. The question arises as to who is responsible for the household chores and other responsibilities. That is a recipe for long-term conflict.
3. Past research links low socioeconomic status to higher levels of intimate partner violence. Unfortunately, that is perhaps not the case with minority healthcare professionals.
In contrast to such findings, moving up the socioeconomic scale (earning more money) does not resolve the situation. Nevertheless, food and housing instability are important determinants.
4. We have to realize that aggression is not natural to humans. Most men want to love and cherish their partners and do not want to hurt them. We can therefore argue that these events are perhaps the result of a form of mental illness.
Persons with mood disorders, low self-confidence, or personality problems often use their partners to ease their emotional frustrations. It applies to men and women with different types of psychopathy. That is no excuse to abuse. However, our attitudes about family violence need to reflect this fact.
5. A combination of someone’s environment, genetics (gene-environment interaction), and brain anatomy can contribute to aggressive traits. Also, some studies suggest that the design of shared homes and spaces may reduce or increase anger. Given people’s emotional relationships with physical spaces, studies indicate that changes in how humans build and use their environment could save lives.
Intimate Partner Violence Affects the Entire Family.
Family and Intimate Partner Violence: Heavy Hands (What’s New in Criminal Justice)- Physical and psychological forms of intimate partner violence can lead to severe mental health problems. Psychological intimate partner violence includes controlling social activities, restricting finances, insults, and gaslighting.
- Intimate partner violence against a mother is associated with an increased risk of speech, communication, and neurological differences in young children. Documented in infants and toddlers is the occurrence of acute respiratory infections and other diseases.
Impact Reduction: Best Practices for IPV Victims/Offenders.
- Do not deal with intimate partner violence alone
- Perhaps your instinct is to be silent or isolate yourself. Instead, look for social connections and help from family, friends, and community organizations to enhance safety and minimize harm. Social contact provides support and helps you tolerate life’s up and downs. If you have time, consider volunteering at your place of worship or for a charity and helping yourself while helping others.
- Build stronger personal relationships
- High-quality relationships give more meaning to life while you cultivate appreciation and optimism. They help to enhance the capacity to deal with distress.
- Make a conscious effort to stay healthy
- Manage stress situations through relaxation techniques
- Active ways to relax are outdoor hiking or sports. Other relaxation methods include meditating, progressive relaxation of the muscles, tai chi, and yoga. Choose whichever is right for you and practice it regularly. It helps improve emotional awareness, reactions, and self-management. Take it easy on yourself and have more time to unwind.
- Try laughter yoga
- Yoga practice is a favorite of the Public Health EDIT. This post will not be complete without stressing its therapeutic effects. Laughter yoga alleviates stress, strengthens immunity, combats depression, and eventually makes people more positive thinkers
Finally, seek counseling
You may need to look for support in the form of therapy or counseling. It is a proactive approach if you feel overwhelmed or trapped. Professionals trained in this area can help you figure out the best protective strategies against IPV. They teach coping tools that reduce the likelihood of becoming a victim or an offender of IPV.
If you or anyone you know is the victim of abuse, here are some resources:
In the United States and Canada: Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
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Beautiful piece. I hope more men of colour read it.
Thank you! Izie
Excellent piece. Well researched and simply presented. 👍🏿
Well researched, well written and thought provoking article. The problem of IPV and the fact that it is getting worse has to be especially worrisome for those of us who are loving and proud parents of the girl child. There’s little doubt that many immigrant couples struggle with the changes in socioeconomic status, home making responsibilities and roles, professional and financial profile, etc foisted on them by their adopted country. In the nature of migration and the ‘greener pastures’ preoccupation that accompanies it, couples would not have been mentally prepared for those changes and the negative dynamics they might set off within their relationship and family. Inability to quickly recognize the deleterious effects of the changes and confront them with absolute honesty, humility and mutual agreement could pave the way for the onset of IPV. It is therefore highly advisable for immigrant couples to consider obtaining/ receiving ongoing empowerment support in this regard, including just being constantly reminded of their vulnerability to relationship and family dysfunction on account of the said changes.
Absolutely Dr. Osode. Getting and receiving continuous empowerment/support would be helpful. Thank you! For your comment.
Thanks. Let’s continue to speak against any form of violence 👍
Beautiful
Hi! This blog looks great already with excellent content. Will sure be here for the long haul
Great stuff. Happy to be here!
Packs a 🥊. A lot to unpack
Good stuff… Immigrants also at higher risk of mood disorders and schizophrenia
This pervasive social pathology, especially as it pertains to Nigerians in the diaspora is one of the numerous expressions of the traumatic consequences of mass economic exodus of a people, feeling helpless and hopeless in their homeland and having sometimes risked everything to make the great escape. To some, successful emigration and just getting out of the country becomes an end, in and of itself. Not all can survive or manage the psycho-emotional consequences of this traumatic transition, especially in increasingly racist and unwelcoming countries; precipitating all manner of enduring psychiatric syndromes and scars. Lashing out in paranoiac outbursts becomes easy. Accept my hearty commendations for being part of leading the engagement with and confrontation of this crucial topic and problem. A critical step in what might be a long, unfortunate and tenuous journey
Way to go, Great Anthony. I think we can do it.
Simply presented, rich in content, a sad reality not just for people of colour living in the diaspora, but this piece also extends to those living in Nigeria nay Africa . No form of violence is/ should be excusable ever. Well done for this piece Ify👍
Kabongo, thank you! continue to express ourselves and replace what seems to be the standard in our society. What demographics in Nigeria are significantly affected by IPV?